As a woman, I never liked that sex oppresses us. It made us feel bad and it was a tool that man used to evade the woman. Some kind of blackmail. A discrimination.
In my training Sex CoachI said we were a long way from normalizing sex.
Now, like cyberpsychologist, seeing and reading all the information and data, I have had to sit down and think again about it.
Long ago I shared the reflection of how the Internet is dragging us back as women into positions I thought were over.
A Catalan friend has recommended that I see the documentary of TV3 Group - it's not new - and my mind has clicked.
I've seen experts known as José Luis García Fernández And I've discovered professionals like a pine cup like Marina Marroquí
I've seen 2 of the 3 parts, I have one left to see, but right now a question turns around and around my head:
At what point has porn been interpreted as sex education?
So bad in sex education are we?
They are rhetorical questions because it is obvious that they are. And I don't know what hit me the most, because I wasn't aware of all this. I've read it, I've studied it, but maybe watching the documentary, listening to the teenagers themselves talk has made me see how normalized sexual violence is in a whole generation (or more).
I have two 13 and 16-year-old nieces and to see this normalization of sexual violence has given me arches. And I'm really sorry for what I'm going to say now, maybe I'm getting carried away by the reaction after watching the documentary, but all those very understanding, modern parents, friends of their children... You haven't noticed this? I try not to say this ever because I'm not a mother and I know the answer is "you will know "But I have been in doubt for years whether we have inculcated enough. VALUES to the generations that come after. Some for being silent for not offending, others for not being the bad guys in the movie.
I'm the one who hated (and I hate) the lyrics of a particular genre of music. I find them insulting, aberrant, totally unnecessary. In my car, my nieces have the lost battle when it comes time to put on music like this. But it's hard not to doubt one's own when it's the music all the radios play. In a few moments, you end up thinking you're the weird one.
Thanks to this documentary, I've realized it's all right.
I have no idea. —yet— where is the turning point between freedom, equality, female empowerment and thus being dragged away by not very healthy manipulations. What I am sure is that we are coming late to put healthy limits and adequate sex education.
I share the link to the second video, while I let a little rest the great list of things I have in mind right now about what situation women are left in all this.
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